Session Information
What happens after you submit a form on the Session Request?
- I’ll review the session request and reach out via email to clarify any references or items within the request
- If you provide references, make sure that they are within the last 2 years (ideally last 6 months) and that you have reached out to those providers giving them consent to provide a reference.
- No one likes to be caught by surprise and they need to be prepared to provide the reference. It’s common courtesy.
- I only accept references from established and respected bdsm providers. Personal / lifestyle references can be provided if you’re new, but this will be subject to additional screening and review prior to approval.
- If I approve your session request, I’ll request that a deposit be made via a payment processor of My choosing. (this is non negotiable for initial sessions)
- Following the deposit, I will send a confirmation making sure that it’s been received on My end which will hold your appointment.
- The night before the session, I will provide a phone number to contact Me at.
- This number is to be used for session logistics and confirmations only.
- If you attempt to use this phone number for kinky/horny talk, you will be given a warning and if you continue to abuse it, your entire appointment/deposit is forfeited.
- if you want to have kinky talk, or if you want to talk through additional scenarios or aspects of your session, please reach out to Me on Sextpanther.
Day of the Session Requirements
- On the day of your session, you must send a confirmation that you’re still planning on attending 2 hrs. before your scheduled time.
- If you’re traveling from far away, a 2 hour confirmation is still expected so please plan accordingly.
- If you forget to reach out, I will send a message 2 hours prior to the contact methods provided as a courtesy, and you will have 30 minutes to acknowledge.
- Failure to respond will result in the appointment being cancelled.
- If there is an emergency that comes up and you’re unable to notify me, I won’t be upset.
- Please don’t arrive more than 5 minutes early to your session to respect the privacy of others that may be leaving the premises.
- Send Me a text once you arrive and I’ll instruct you on where to enter.
Session Etiquette
Do’s:
- Shower prior to your appointment
- Drink plenty of water and be well hydrated
- Eat a full meal before your appointment (helps maintain blood sugar throughout the session)
- Bring any toys, clothes, or gear that you currently own and that you would like to use in your session.
Dont’s:
- Do Not arrive under the influence of drugs or alcohol
- Do Not wear any fetish clothing or gear to the appointment (keep it vanilla and what you would wear to a family friendly restaurant)
- Do Not wear any heavy perfumes or cologne to the session.
If you arrive at your appointment and you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol, you will be immediately escorted out of the premises and told to leave. Your appointment and deposit will be forfeited.
Reminder of Personal Hard Limits:
As mentioned in the session form, these are My hard limits, and strictly speaking, none of these will ever be performed during our sessions.
- Foodplay (includes feederism, sploshing, contact with things that are/were alive…etc.)
- Blackmail and extreme fear/exposure play
- Race Play
- Public Play within sight of non consenting parties
- Play that involves contact with My body such as worship, licking, kissing….etc.
- Escort Related services are not permitted under any circumstance
- Contact with your bodily fluids (spit and other)
- Nudity involving My body (I will remain clothed during the entire session)
- This includes heterosexual cuckolding (Me with another male partner will not happen)